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How the menstrual cycle works

• Your cycle starts on the first day of your period and continues up to the first day of your period.
• At the same time, eggs begin to mature in the ovary.
• The lining of the womb starts to thicken in readiness for fertilisation.
• During ovulation your cervical mucus becomes thinner and clearer to help the sperm to reach the released egg.
• About 10 to 16 days before the start of your next period, an egg is released from one of the ovaries (ovulation).
• If sperm is present at the moment of ovulation, or some time during the next 24 hours, the egg may be fertilised.
• If the egg has not been fertilised, the egg is re-absorbed by the body, the hormone levels drop, and the womb lining is shed – the beginning of your next period.

Time it right

To boost your chances of conceiving, aim to have regular sex throughout your cycle so you know that there should hopefully be good-quality sperm waiting for the time that the egg is released. An active sex life is all most people need to conceive.

If you are quite sure when you ovulate each month you can give yourself the best chance of getting pregnant by having sex in the days leading up to ovulation. Continue having sex during ovulation. After this your fertile time will be over for that cycle.

How to tell when ovulation happens

Ovulation usually happens about 10 to 16 days before the start of your next period, so  it helps to know your cycle length before you start trying to conceive.

You may never have considered when you might ovulate within your cycle, and if you have been using a hormone contraceptive such as the Pill, you won’t have had a natural menstrual cycle for a while.

As a first step, mark on your diary the dates that you bleed during a period. You can then count how many days from the first day of your period to your next period to work out the length of your cycle.

Cervical mucus changes

The cervix secretes mucus throughout the menstrual cycle, starting off sticky white and gradually becoming thinner and clearer.

Before and during ovulation the mucus increases and becomes much thinner, slippery and stretchy. Women often compare it to raw egg white.

This thinner mucus is designed to help the sperm swim easily through it. It indicates that you are in your fertile phase, so this is the time to have sex if you want to get pregnant, but use contraception if you do not!

The last day you notice the wetter secretions is sometimes known as ‘peak day’ and for most women this occurs very close to the time of ovulation.

Temperature

You can also find out about your menstrual cycle by keeping a note of your temperature each morning when you wake up. Your temperature rises by about 0.2°C when ovulation has taken place.

As it is only an indicator that you have ovulated, and doesn’t tell you when your fertile time starts, this is not very useful for most women.

pregnancy tests Using ovulation predictor kits (OPK)

(available from chemists). This is called Home pregnancy test

They work by detecting a hormone in your urine that increases when ovulation is about to take place.

Do you have early pregnancy symptoms?

If you notice one or more of these symptoms, it might be a good idea to take a pregnancy test.

•      Late period
•      Extreme tiredness
•      Need to wee more often
•      Nausea
•      A metallic taste in your mouth
•      Sensitivity to smells
•      Tender or sore breasts.

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Discovering you’re pregnant - what next?

Once you get a positive pregnancy test, make an appointment to see your doctor or a midwife.

Tell the doctor’s surgery that you have had a positive pregnancy test result as you might need a longer appointment.

Your doctor’s surgery should be able to advise you of their procedure.